There are many ways to live life. Some people follow the refreshing approach. They may also demonstrate resilience. Some people follow the resentful approach.
The way that people behave when following these approaches can have consequences for both themselves and other people. Let’s explore these different approaches.
The Refreshing Approach
Some people come across as refreshing. They are often grateful and generous. They want to encourage other people and help them to succeed.
Such people are enthusiastic. They do what they enjoy and communicate positive energy. They may also share ideas and knowledge that show people imaginative ways to shape the future.
They are often positive realists. They have a positive attitude to life but are also good at reading reality. They are good at seeing both successful and unsuccessful patterns.
They may also be resilient. They demonstrate grit in certain areas of their lives and are good at finding solutions to challenges. They focus on practical ways to shape a positive future.
Such people walk on the bright side of the road but they are aware of the dark side. When appropriate, they try to shine a light that provides people with practical hope.
They do their best to encourage other people. They also, when appropriate, focus on doing work that is excellent. This can sometimes also have a positive effect on other people.
The Resentful Approach
Some people come across as resentful. They blame others or talk about how they have been wronged in the past. They sometimes behave and speak in ways that can hurt other people.
Some seem addicted to resentment. They refuse to focus on their own responsibility and seem to enjoy describing how others are responsible for their present situation.
Some may be financially well off, but they come across as grumpy or greedy. They want more possessions or power, but they will never have enough. Such people sometimes come across as mean or miserable.
Let’s return to your own life and work. Looking ahead, can you think of a situation where you may want to follow elements of the refreshing approach? How can you do this in your own way?
If you wish, try tackling the exercise on this theme. This invites you to complete the following sentences.
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